tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4724947114810215725.post503215241839088165..comments2023-10-28T17:47:43.723-04:00Comments on Table For Four: Challenge {never} CompleteNicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15725310448387210231noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4724947114810215725.post-85290745642668928852011-12-18T12:49:26.579-05:002011-12-18T12:49:26.579-05:00I wanted to read this book after you mentioned it,...I wanted to read this book after you mentioned it, and I think I need to check it out!Calliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04177545285954715021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4724947114810215725.post-60264413848882007662011-12-13T20:48:23.329-05:002011-12-13T20:48:23.329-05:00I love that you did this... And were honest about ...I love that you did this... And were honest about it.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11708857742804062091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4724947114810215725.post-55067397625791165602011-12-13T14:24:25.056-05:002011-12-13T14:24:25.056-05:00Way to go. That is such a great challenge to give ...Way to go. That is such a great challenge to give yourself and your hubby! :)Stephanie Doylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15424533411749873398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4724947114810215725.post-81896708755900270132011-12-12T19:18:13.784-05:002011-12-12T19:18:13.784-05:00Im glad that you are taking the time to think of M...Im glad that you are taking the time to think of Mau. I know it's hard sometimes to pull yourself out of your daily routine and do something special for him. I do this for my hubby all the time. I get him special treats when I go to the market, send him texts that I would hope he appreciates, even the X rated stuff. The problem is, that I feel like I am always the one thinking about him and everyone else and I get no reciprocation. I know what you mean about not doing it to get something back. I do it gladly because I care and it makes me feel good. But I think I deserve a little pampering every now and then too. I deserve him to think of me when making the bed, doing the dishes and/or the laundry without me asking him to. And not doing it half assed... I mean really doing it from step one! I;m the only one really working right now and bringing any kind of money into the family. I am also the one to do everything for the kids and for him. On top of that, nothing rated X has happened within the past month! Why? Because "He's tired". So the moral of the story here is not to be an over achiever when it comes to doing special things for your husband all the time. They get too used to it and then expect it, and when it's not being done, they question you like if they are deserving when they don't do anything for you in return. Make sure he's giving his 50% as well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4724947114810215725.post-89002450751887099062011-12-12T15:09:40.200-05:002011-12-12T15:09:40.200-05:00Love the challenge. I've been thinking on this...Love the challenge. I've been thinking on this lately too! We lose the spark if we forget how special the other person is and that we chose him and love him - he may already know but what can we do to remind him often that we still feel that way!Mrs. Fijhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10244478847421516647noreply@blogger.com